In this era of political
devise, polarization on so many fronts, hatefulness, lack of tolerance and
violence, it seems we need some ways to contribute to the good of all. It can
feel like a hopeless cause as we don’t feel as if we have any impact in the drama
unfolding each day. It is certainly easy to get caught up in all of this and
become obsessed with the daily happenings yet that can leave us feeling
anxious, angry and fearful.
I do feel like we can
contribute and make a difference in this unsettled terrain we currently live
in. It would start with what our “internal terrain” looks like. Is there
unsettledness, anxiety, anger and hatefulness within our own self? Can we work
to maintain a peace-filled environment that becomes symbolic of what we want to
see in the world we live?
It seems clear that our real
work, regardless of which side of the issue we land, is to “be the change we
want to see” – as Ghandi so wisely put it. We can use this to be the beacon of
light to guide us and remind us how not to get caught up in the rhetoric so
much, but instead to always make choices in how we respond. We make these
deliberate and conscious responses by remembering our values and how we want to
live.
Let’s face it. How we choose to
live internally needs to be symbolic of the community, state and nation that we
want to see. To me this means we have to choose to be the peace, love, kindness
and compassion within our self so that this can reflect out into the rest of
the world.
It is exceptionally difficult
because the outside rhetoric can keep us upset, worked up and anxious. This is
why I continue to practice mindfulness and extend the course opportunity to
others. I feel like this tool, practicing mindfulness is needed more than ever
right now. It teaches how to recognize that you are having a stress reaction
within yourself and then gives the tools needed to make choices to respond in a
way that is not reactive.
Let’s imagine that how you feel internally actually does
impact your environment, whether at home, work and within your community. If
you react to everything that comes across your path in a day, it impacts your
internal space. If you begin to catch yourself going into a reactive state and
make choices that align with your values and what you want to see in the world,
you are contributing to making the state of affairs better. So be the peace you
want to see. Start with yourself. Let your desire for peace within be your
moral compass for what you extend out.
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